My Brain Just Went Wacky Again..............

Day 5 of Thanks!  I am thankful to have a great love in my life for over 50+ years!  He has stuck with me through thick and thin--good and bad--dark days and bright sunshine!  


Okay, I was fine until I saw the marriage proposal on national news right after the World Series game--It was beautiful thing to watch and the excitement it created was awesome!  It was a fairy tale come true!  So, My brain begin to wonder

Why do men (or women) get down on one knee to propose?  Have you ever thought about that?
Don't despair, I have--what would make a super power guy get down on one knee in front of all the world to see when he was asking his love for her hand in marriage?  And then he presented her with a smack beautiful ring!!  Unbelieveable!!

But, where does this tradition come from?

Here's what I dug up-- from Engagement Ring Bible

"dates back to the days of knighthood, chivalry and formal courtship (i.e. medieval times and beyond)." Apparently:

"Knights would get down on one knee in front of their lord as a display of respect, obedience, and loyalty. It was also a common occurrence in religious ceremonies, and in those days marriage and religion were intrinsically linked.

"So when a courteous gentlemen was proposing to his lady, pledging his allegiance to her and declaring his undying love for her, getting down on one knee was the natural thing to do."

So there you have it: if your partner goes to the lengths of getting down on one knee to ask for your hand in marriage, what he's really trying to say is that he plans to be loyal, respectful, and do to what you say for the rest of time (that's the obedience bit). If only he knew what he was signing himself up to.

And Why is the wedding ring won on the Left hand??--

The Wedding Ring. ... In that era, the Romans believed that the vein in the ring finger (the fourth finger) on theleft hand ran directly to one's heart. Because of this belief, they called that vein the "vena amoris" or vein of love.

Now, aren't you glad that my mind ponders???

Things I Ponder

Day 4 of Thanksgiving:  We are having smoked turkey for Turkey day!  I asked our son to smoke a turkey and he said YES!  So thankful for him!!

And now my brain moves onto something totally differnet and weird...........................

Maybe, I have too much brain time wasted when I ponder...............sometimes, there will be just a word that will burst in my brain and I say, "why?"  So, here are a few things I've been pondering and went on a search to find the answer to 'why'.

Snug as bug in a rug?  sleep tight?  What do these sayings mean?  Where did they originate?  Are we still using 'antique' phrases for modern day happenings that could continue into future times?

Here is a rope bed, dating from colonial America--maybe, even earlier in history.

and a video showing how the ropes were tighten to give you a 'good night's' sleep.


This information came from History is Elementary.  Years ago on one of our mother-daughter trips, we stayed in an old Colonial house in Williamsburg, VA.  It advertised three bedrooms, but in one of the smaller bedrooms was a rope bed!  The girls  pulled straws to decide who got that room!

Another saying:  Snug as bug in a rug--and don't let the bed bugs bite!  C. 1760, bed rugs were woven from wool to create a warm bedding for the coldest parts of the house, usually servants or children were given these coarse woven rugs as a coverlet.  Soldiers and sailors also slept with them.

Woven rug was only as wide as the loom unless two sections were seamed together down the middle.

now, just imagine--if you can, that these bed rugs were not preserved like quilts but used over and over again until they fell apart--also, these are wool--what is attracted to wool?  Moths and other bugs-

but, here is where maybe the saying originated

Which leads back to the old expression "snug as a bug in rug." Its first noted appearance is 1772, when Benjamin Franklin used it in a satirical epitaph for a lady's pet squirrel named Skugg:

          
                           Here Skugg
                           Lies snug
                           As a bug
                           In a rug.

I have found two blogs in my research that I now follow--Two Nerdy History Girls and Lisa Land Cooper, History is Elementary

Why do US drivers keep on the right side of the road?

In the late 1700s,  teamsters in France and the United States began hauling farm products in big wagons pulled by several pairs of horses. These wagons had no driver’s seat; instead the driver sat on the left rear horse, so he could keep his right arm free to lash the team. Since he was sitting on the left, he naturally wanted everybody to pass on the left so he could look down and make sure he kept clear of the oncoming wagon’s wheels. Therefore he kept to the right side of the road.

There is also information on why we mount a horse on the left- in the above website-!  I always pondered that too! and why some countries drive on the left--so fascinating! 

Isn't history fun?!

Day 3 of Thanksgiving!

What can you share today as your day of thanksgiving--a walk around the neighborhood?  A call from a friend who brighten your day? 

Today I'm thankful for my 'out-law' relatives who celebrate their wedding anniversary today...................

They are my brother and sister-in-laws; hence, they are my 'outlaw' relatives!

We joked when we gathered as a family about us outlaws but now the

larger family is dimishing sadly.

May you have a truly happy anniversary!!

Slush Hat KAL Begins Tomorrow!!

Day 2 of Thanksgiving:  I'm thankful I can read a knitting pattern!

Take One skein of super bulky weight yarn, get the pattern, add two hours of knitting time,

add a pom pom if you please and what do you get?!!

Slush Hat!!  Great gift idea!  

If you're into prizes,  post one photo per finished object using the hashtag #slushkalfo

Let's see some Slush Hats come December 1

#slushkal and #slushkalfo  

A Month of Thanks and Giving

Each day in November, some of our family members participate in days of thanks.  So, here goes:
We are Day 1--

Where do we begin?  There are so many riches in our daily lives; 

and so many conflicts as well--sometimes, it's hard to find a way to

be thankful.

It helps to write down or journal your thanks--than you can look back, when

there is a bad day, to see just what you were thankful for each day.

If you want a daily reminder, download this printable note

How to Do the Challenge

1. Begin paying attention.

Was your lunch today particularly good? Did you listen to one of your favorite songs while driving in your car? Were the clouds in the sky in a beautiful pattern? You can find gratitude and thankfulness in anything — big or small.

2. Write it down.

Each day, write down one thing that you are grateful for. You can print out this daily calendar.

3. Share your progress.

Join our LIVESTRONG.COM Challenge Facebook Group for motivation and challenge updates. Finally, you can share your daily gratitude on Twitter, Instagram or Facebook using the hashtag #30DaysOfThanks.

Recording your gratitude should take you only one to five minutes per day. This is such a small amount of time to spend on something that can give you tremendous happiness and health benefits.

And I'm thankful for you visiting my blog!  Be thankful each day, even if it's small thing! 

Vampires, Witches, Bats, Skeletons = Halloweeeeeeeeeen!

Here I go again--Pondering--this time about Halloween.............

The History of Halloween

Thousands of years ago in Europe, there were groups of people known as the Celtics. The Celtic people occupied areas now known as the United Kingdom, Ireland and some parts of France. These ancient pagan people were very superstitious and their lives depended on the growth of their crops and a successful harvest. A celebration known as Samhain began within this Gaelic culture to commemorate the end of the harvest or the days of light, and to acknowledge the beginning of the days of darkness (winter) and what to them was considered the New Year. This beginning of the Celtic New Year was celebrated on November 1st.

The tradition of dressing up in costume and begging for treats may go back as far as the Middle Ages when it was common during the Christmas season for beggars and the poor to go wassailing, a ritual which involved going door to door to ask for food. Another custom known as "souling" was common during the medieval days. On All Saints Day, the less fortunate would beg for food or money and in exchange, they would offer up prayers for the dead on All Soul's Day.

 for the kids:    coloring pages for Halloweeen!  

And this is only the tip of the information about Halloween!  Now, I appreciate the holiday more than ever!

Friends!

 What is a Friend!  "a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations."

When you google "friend" you get the TV show--well, it was a show about friends, but what is a true friend?  Someone who will tell you like it is; have your back; give you moral support; love, laugh, cry with you in times of need.  Do you remember your very first "friend"?  Maybe someone from your childhood?  A life long friend?

I have -friends- and then I have FRIENDS!  You know what I mean.

In this case, my FRIENDS gather every so often to celebrate birthdays,

cheer each other on,  laugh at the bright moments, cry at the sad times,

share family crisis, and hug tightly! 

October was my birth month and I'm honored to celebrate with my FRIENDS

at our biannial luncheon.  Our gifts at all times are joyful at being together; our tangible 

gifts are fabric fat quarters of our choosing.  And the best part--the fact

that each FRIEND will bring something totally awesome to the party!

Above are my fat quarters--I chose whites or neutrals--every one is

a winner!

Another FRIENDS tangible is my Texas theme quilt--

back from quilter, Judy M--

As FRIENDS, we decided to do a fabric themed fabric exchange--

each 5" square was assembled --as this blanket is

used for comfort, I'll think of my FRIENDS who contributed

to its warmth and beauty.

with a plain backing--you can see the lines of

continued friendship as they scroll across the threads of our lives.

FRIENDS!  so glad they are in my life............