And Life Goes On...........

 We live, We die..........................................................

Recently, our mother slipped slowly away.  She was near 104 years of age.  Her last years were not her best.  She was fragile, non verbal, had dementia and was not happy.  We, the children, can now say we are orphans, even though she didn't have any more 'rising' to do with us.  Now, we are advancing to looking at our own upcoming death ages.  We live, we die.....................it's the in between that matters. 

 We try to make the most of each day and live accordingly.  Our mother lived by herself for 50+ years after our father died.  Then she had a fall and we decided she needed additional care--to her, that meant her independence was gone.  It's tough when the child becomes the parent--there are times when that reverse order of things are necessary.

In tribute to our parents, my brother wrote and recorded the above song.  It's a lovely view of her life in a small way.  Although, we had many old photos, those were taken from us by a swift fire.  That was the day before cloud storage--we lost all those printed memories--now, we just rely on our thoughts of what, when, and where things happen.  To see many of those memories in this video brought tears to my eyes.  There is nothing like photos to open those doors of your brain.

Live as perfectly as you can.............................Make memories!