Day 5 of Thanks! I am thankful to have a great love in my life for over 50+ years! He has stuck with me through thick and thin--good and bad--dark days and bright sunshine!
Okay, I was fine until I saw the marriage proposal on national news right after the World Series game--It was beautiful thing to watch and the excitement it created was awesome! It was a fairy tale come true! So, My brain begin to wonder
Why do men (or women) get down on one knee to propose? Have you ever thought about that?
Don't despair, I have--what would make a super power guy get down on one knee in front of all the world to see when he was asking his love for her hand in marriage? And then he presented her with a smack beautiful ring!! Unbelieveable!!
"dates back to the days of knighthood, chivalry and formal courtship (i.e. medieval times and beyond)." Apparently:
"Knights would get down on one knee in front of their lord as a display of respect, obedience, and loyalty. It was also a common occurrence in religious ceremonies, and in those days marriage and religion were intrinsically linked.
"So when a courteous gentlemen was proposing to his lady, pledging his allegiance to her and declaring his undying love for her, getting down on one knee was the natural thing to do."
So there you have it: if your partner goes to the lengths of getting down on one knee to ask for your hand in marriage, what he's really trying to say is that he plans to be loyal, respectful, and do to what you say for the rest of time (that's the obedience bit). If only he knew what he was signing himself up to.
And Why is the wedding ring won on the Left hand??--
The Wedding Ring. ... In that era, the Romans believed that the vein in the ring finger (the fourth finger) on theleft hand ran directly to one's heart. Because of this belief, they called that vein the "vena amoris" or vein of love. Now, aren't you glad that my mind ponders???
Day 4 of Thanksgiving: We are having smoked turkey for Turkey day! I asked our son to smoke a turkey and he said YES! So thankful for him!!
And now my brain moves onto something totally differnet and weird...........................
Maybe, I have too much brain time wasted when I ponder...............sometimes, there will be just a word that will burst in my brain and I say, "why?" So, here are a few things I've been pondering and went on a search to find the answer to 'why'.
Snug as bug in a rug? sleep tight? What do these sayings mean? Where did they originate? Are we still using 'antique' phrases for modern day happenings that could continue into future times?
Here is a rope bed, dating from colonial America--maybe, even earlier in history.
and a video showing how the ropes were tighten to give you a 'good night's' sleep.
This information came from History is Elementary. Years ago on one of our mother-daughter trips, we stayed in an old Colonial house in Williamsburg, VA. It advertised three bedrooms, but in one of the smaller bedrooms was a rope bed! The girls pulled straws to decide who got that room!
Another saying: Snug as bug in a rug--and don't let the bed bugs bite! C. 1760, bed rugs were woven from wool to create a warm bedding for the coldest parts of the house, usually servants or children were given these coarse woven rugs as a coverlet. Soldiers and sailors also slept with them.
Woven rug was only as wide as the loom unless two sections were seamed together down the middle.
now, just imagine--if you can, that these bed rugs were not preserved like quilts but used over and over again until they fell apart--also, these are wool--what is attracted to wool? Moths and other bugs-
but, here is where maybe the saying originated
Which leads back to the old expression "snug as a bug in rug." Its first noted appearance is 1772, when Benjamin Franklin used it in a satirical epitaph for a lady's pet squirrel named Skugg:
Why do US drivers keep on the right side of the road?
In the late 1700s, teamsters in France and the United States began hauling farm products in big wagons pulled by several pairs of horses. These wagons had no driver’s seat; instead the driver sat on the left rear horse, so he could keep his right arm free to lash the team. Since he was sitting on the left, he naturally wanted everybody to pass on the left so he could look down and make sure he kept clear of the oncoming wagon’s wheels. Therefore he kept to the right side of the road.
There is also information on why we mount a horse on the left- in the above website-! I always pondered that too! and why some countries drive on the left--so fascinating!
Each day in November, some of our family members participate in days of thanks. So, here goes: We are Day 1--
Where do we begin? There are so many riches in our daily lives;
and so many conflicts as well--sometimes, it's hard to find a way to
be thankful.
It helps to write down or journal your thanks--than you can look back, when
there is a bad day, to see just what you were thankful for each day.
If you want a daily reminder, download this printable note
How to Do the Challenge
1. Begin paying attention.
Was your lunch today particularly good? Did you listen to one of your favorite songs while driving in your car? Were the clouds in the sky in a beautiful pattern? You can find gratitude and thankfulness in anything — big or small.
2. Write it down.
Each day, write down one thing that you are grateful for. You can print out this daily calendar.
3. Share your progress.
Join our LIVESTRONG.COM Challenge Facebook Group for motivation and challenge updates. Finally, you can share your daily gratitude on Twitter, Instagram or Facebook using the hashtag #30DaysOfThanks.
Recording your gratitude should take you only one to five minutes per day. This is such a small amount of time to spend on something that can give you tremendous happiness and health benefits.
And I'm thankful for you visiting my blog! Be thankful each day, even if it's small thing!